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Resilience is important because it’s what allows a person to endure hardships and bounce back from challenging situations. However, resilience is something we must learn over time, it is not something we are born with. With that said, parents should try and look for ways to help their children become more resilient. Read on for some advice from a prep school in Surrey.
Don’t Coddle Your Child
There will be times when you want to scoop up your little one, cuddle them and tell them everything will be okay. Unfortunately, if you always mollycoddle your child, they will never learn how to be tough. So, next time they fall over and scrape a knee, dust them off and let them know how brave they are rather than pampering them. If you panic, your child will be able to sense your anxiety and will react in a similar way. Likewise, if your child is upset about a minor inconvenience, try to make light of the situation, as it will eventually pass.
Don’t Be Afraid of Failure
Failing is an inevitable part of life and depending on how you look at it, it can actually be a good thing. It allows us to learn from our mistakes and teaches us that life won’t end when things don’t go to plan. With this in mind, try and embrace your child’s failings. Put a positive spin on it and let them know you are proud of them for trying their best, rather than acting disappointed because they were unsuccessful.
Encourage Your Child to Help Others
Having your child offer a helping hand to others can help them feel empowered. It also allows them to build stronger relationships which will provide them with a sense of social support. Feeling supported and empowered will help your child become more resilient.
These are just a few suggestions to get you started when it comes to building resilience. There are lots of other ways you can help your child become stronger, such as providing an optimistic home environment, building up their confidence, and helping them put things into perspective.
